Acceptance vs. Approval: A Christian Perspective

Recently, I was invited to a Christmas event that didn't necessarily align with my Christian stand. This situation prompted me to reflect on the profound difference between acceptance and approval.

As Christians, we are called to love unconditionally. We are called to build relationships and to be the salt and light that ignites a hunger and thirst for the fulfillment of the God-shaped void within each person, encouraging them to seek what we have found as believers.

What I've come to realize is that I can wholeheartedly accept someone's current situation. I can understand and empathize with their unique narrative and the choices they make, even if those choices don't align with my own beliefs. Acceptance, in this context, means recognizing the individual's humanity and embracing them as they are.

However, acceptance doesn't equate to approval. It doesn't mean that I have to endorse or condone choices that contradict my faith. It's crucial to distinguish between these two concepts. I can accept someone and their choices without necessarily approving of those choices.

This distinction is liberating. It means that I don't have to compromise my values or engage in activities that go against my beliefs just to fit in or belong. I can maintain my Christian principles while demonstrating the unconditional love that Jesus taught us to have.

So, when faced with decisions that involve the cost of a relationship or participation in activities that conflict with your stand, consider this question: "Can I accept this person and their choices while still choosing not to approve of those choices? And how can I navigate this in my interactions with them?"

It's a thought-provoking challenge that encourages us to be intentional in upholding our beliefs and extending love and acceptance to those around us. In doing so, we embody the essence of Christ's love – embracing others without compromising our convictions.